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Arelie Estevez LMHC, LPC

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Licensing & Certifications:

  • NYS Licensed Mental Health Counselor License # 010629-01
  • Trauma focused CBT with addition developmental disabilities certified
  • LPC in NJ

Professional Background

Hola! My name is Arelie and I am a licensed mental health professional in the states of New York and New Jersey. I have been practicing for about 6 years and I am currently employed at a partial hospitalization program for children in NJ and in private practice working with teens, adults and couples. I am a bilingual, trauma-informed multicultural counselor that seeks to identify and make connections on how your cultural upbringing interacts with development and behaviors. My areas of focus include addressing trauma, stress, anxiety, depression, ADHD, and a wide variety of life’s problems including family, parenting, relationships, marriage and social interactions. In my practice I utilize a wide range of therapeutic approaches mainly based in cultural identity, socio economic status and social justice.

As a clinician I work with families, children, teens, adults and couples in various capacities. Some I see in private practice others are enrolled in a partial hospitalization program. The most common issues I work on with my clients include family issues, difficulties related to cultural background, immigration status and language barriers, stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and social difficulties as well as overall emotional and behavioral management. I do this work to be the safe place for individuals struggling with various life problems. My goal is to be that familiar face in the therapy room for Latinos, women, people of color and all individuals from underserved populations. With the use of multicultural counseling, CBT, person centered approaches, mindfulness coaching, skill building, trauma informed techniques, family and couples therapy I have walked with clients through several problems. The most apparent changes I see for my clients is an increase in self esteem and self advocacy, reduced somatic symptoms of trauma, anxiety and depression. Willingness for change, active engagement in learning and practicing social/emotional and coping skills. My clients learn to accept who they are and what their needs are with a strong emphasis on establishing necessary boundaries in their everyday lives to promote overall mental wellbeing.

In addition to being a licensed mental health professional I am also an advocate for social justice and mental health awareness. I utilize my social media platforms to spread accurate and reliable mental health information. I am an author of 3 self esteem journals including a daily adult journal in English and Spanish and a specialized self esteem journal for children. I recently was nominated and chosen to be a speaker at a Tedx event in NYC in which I will be using my expertise to discuss human behavior. I am a mom, a woman, a wife, a Latina and a lover of culture and differences which makes me a safe place for so many people out there. I strive to provide low cost quality mental health services to people of all walks of life.

Education

  • Clinical Mental Health Counseling MA
  • Psychology BS
  • CUNY College of Staten Island

Why I Write for Choosing Therapy

I sought out and became a writer for Choosing Therapy in hopes to reach a bigger audience of individuals struggling with their cultural identity, language barriers, life problems including family and social issues. It is my hope to author culturally sensitive pieces that speak to the underserved populations all over the country. I write for ChoosingTherapy.com because I respect their high editorial standards. I love knowing every article my content appears alongside has been written by a licensed mental health provider, carefully edited, and medically reviewed.

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Area of Focus

Arelie provides comprehensive support across various areas, including couples counseling for consensual relationships and parenting, career guidance for young adults and teens, and trauma-informed counseling for individual concerns like anxiety and grief.

  • Couples counseling, including counseling for consensual relationships, marriage and parenting issues
  • Career development & transitions for young adults and teens
  • Trauma-informed individual counseling for anxiety, emotional regulation, relationship concerns, abuse, grief & loss and immigration/ acculturation stress and anxiety.
  • Family counseling to improve communication and interactions, establish family roles and expectations
  • Teens and adults individual therapy to address symptoms, increase awareness of issues, establish boundaries and expectations as well as improve emotional/ behavioral wellbeing overall
  • Working with women to establish roles and address difficulties managing motherhood, work and relationship with significant other.
ADHD & Impulsivity Undestanding The Connection

ADHD & Impulsivity: Understanding the Connection

Impulsivity and ADHD are closely related; sometimes they are co-occurring, and sometimes you can have impulsivity without also having ADHD and vice versa. Impulsivity in someone diagnosed with ADHD usually shows up as actions without thinking or planning. This person may speak over you or out of turn, make poor decisions, and/or take unnecessary risks. Sometimes impulsivity can be a good thing, like when you need to think fast and come up with a quick solution to a problem, but for the most part, impulsive behaviors can put you in unnecessary risky situations.

June 6, 2023
box breathing

Box Breathing: Square Breathing Benefits & How to Do It

Box breathing, or square breathing, is a relaxation technique that combines mental clarity with physical calm. Favored by athletes, police officers, and yoga practitioners, this deep breathing method involves taking controlled breaths in a four-part 'box' pattern. Not only does it reduce stress and improve concentration, but it also enhances overall well-being by synchronizing the mind and body.

June 6, 2023

“If you are here because you are experiencing your first mental health crisis I want you to know that it’s ok, it’s normal to struggle and whatever you may be going through is not permanent. Feelings are not facts and you can choose how to interact and react to the things that are stressing you at the moment. You have come to the right place, a place to seek healing and I am here to walk you through it.

If you are considering therapy for the first time, welcome. Get ready to do the hardest but most fulfilling work of your personal life. Here you will learn about the things you want and how to implement expectations and boundaries in your everyday life.

I come from a family riddled with anxiety and stress. I have never known a relaxed adult but for whatever reason they think it’s normal. Becoming aware and actively working on reducing mental health issues for myself and future generations seems so hard when there’s a huge stigma against seeking this type of help. But you aren’t alone in those feelings and being the first to make change is a challenge but you can do it and I’ll be here to help you along the way.”