Written by:
Sandra Calzadilla
LMHC
Written by:
Sandra Calzadilla
LMHC
Whether you have ADHD or have a friend or loved one with ADHD, finding stories from therapists, doctors, and other ADHD authors can help you make sense of the symptoms and provide insight into the way ADHD brains work.
Perhaps you’re a parent whose child was recently diagnosed, or you’re an adult wondering why you can’t seem to focus on the right things. Either way, these books on ADHD can help with advice, insight, or, at the very least, let you know you’re not alone.
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ADHD Books for Parents
Parenting is challenging enough, and attention issues like struggling to stay focused, constantly high-energy, and the inability to stick with a project can make it feel impossible. These books are for parents who want to navigate their childrens’ ADHD while helping them thrive.
1. Understanding Girls with ADHD: How They Feel and Why They Do What They Do, by Kathleen Nadeau, Ellen Littman, and Patricia Quinn
ADHD is no longer “just for boys.” This informative book breaks down common ADHD issues in young girls and puts them into easy, understandable categories so that you can find what you need quickly.
It’s also not afraid to dive into difficult questions like determining if your daughter’s symptoms are actually ADHD or whether or not medication may be worthwhile for your child.
2. Taking Charge of ADHD, Second Edition: The Complete, Authoritative Guide for Parents, by Russell A. Barkley, Ph.D.
This often-cited ADHD book comes up high on most lists, and for good reason. This latest edition includes a section for parents with ADHD themselves, as well as updated information on medication, treatment plans, and behavior solutions to help your child manage their symptoms and move ahead.
3. HyperHealing: The Empowered Parent’s Complete Guide to Raising a Healthy Child with ADHD Symptoms, by Avigail Gimpel M.S.
Avigail Gimpel was a teacher who loved all of her students, but always had a special spot for those with “a special energy.” These kids daydreamed, often struggled to stay on task, and sometimes had a hard time in social or emotional situations.
Her experience teaching these students, as well as raising her own children diagnosed with ADHD, led her on a 20-year journey to identify the best ways to help these children grow into their healthiest selves.
ADHD Books for Kids
Kids are smarter than we often give them credit for, so why not tackle their ADHD diagnosis together? These books are written for kids to help them understand their emotions, find meaningful strategies, and thrive into happy, healthy adults.
4. Thriving with ADHD Workbook for Kids: 60 Fun Activities to Help Children Self-Regulate, Focus, and Succeed, by Kelli Miller LCSW MSW
Understanding their ADHD diagnosis can be a frightening time for children, but this helpful workbook reframes ADHD as a positive asset and offers tons of activities for children to better understand themselves and manage their symptoms. Children can learn about the different types of ADHD, find skill-building activities, and learn real coping strategies to help them grow and succeed.
5. A Dragon With ADHD: A Children’s Story About ADHD. A Cute Book to Help Kids Get Organized, Focus, and Succeed, by Steve Herman
Part of Steve Herman’s children’s book series on understanding mental health and emotions, A Dragon With ADHD is perfect for kids who need help understanding ADHD and how it affects their moods. Every book features a pet dragon that personifies a mental health issue: in this case, a pet dragon with ADHD. This cute and friendly book is a great companion for a recent diagnosis or for kids who struggle to understand why they feel different from others.
6. Mindfulness Activities for Kids with ADHD: Engaging Stories and Exercises to Help You Learn And Thrive, by Dr. Sharon Grand, Ph.D.
If you’re looking for ways to teach your children mindful strategies for their ADHD, this activity and storybook is for you. Each story offers helpful questions, activities for feeling overwhelmed, and lots more. Kids can read it by themselves or parents can read it to their kids, perhaps as a calming bedtime story.
ADHD Books for Adults
ADHD isn’t just for kids – adults often struggle with the same attention issues, especially if they never received a diagnosis as a child. These adult-specific books offer advice and hands-on practical solutions for dealing with ADHD symptoms.
7. Driven to Distraction: Recognizing and Coping with Attention Deficit Disorder, by Edward M. Hallowell M.D., and John J. Ratey M.D.
Older readers appreciate this ADHD guide for adults with ADHD. It’s full of practical advice, updated medical information, and, most importantly, how to recognize and manage your symptoms.
Driven to Distraction offers both adult and child cases with expert advice from Dr. Hallowell and focuses on the positive aspects of ADHD just as much as the side effects.
8. Taking Charge of Adult ADHD, by Russell A. Barkley
If you’re struggling to cope with your ADHD symptoms, whether you lack focus, can’t stay organized, or struggle in personal relationships, then Dr. Barkley’s hands-on, practical guide may be just what you need. Full of self-assessment tools and skill-building exercises, this workbook is a great start for those looking to better manage their ADHD.
ADHD Books for Couples
Attention issues can easily affect communication in couples, or leave one spouse with the impression that their partner is forgetful, unorganized, or lazy. These marriage-focused books help realign couples with ADHD to better help spouses understand each other and work together towards a happier marriage.
9. The ADHD Effect on Marriages: Understand and Rebuild Your Relationship in Six Steps, by Melissa Orlov
If you struggle to understand your partner with ADHD, or your ADHD symptoms are behind some relationship strife, then Orlov’s part counseling, part understanding book will likely come in handy.
Read first-hand accounts from other ADHD couples tackling issues and see how they overcame, with examples and advice from Orlov. There are also worksheets and exercises to help couples find a solution that works for their styles of communication.
10. The ADHD Marriage Workbook: A User-Friendly Guide to Improving Your Relationship, by Michael T. Bell
Many doctors and therapists are qualified to talk about ADHD and its effects on a marriage, but knowing that the author of this book not only has been studying ADHD since 1999 but also has ADHD himself, may win over uncertain couples.
Dr. Bell wrote this workbook after years of experience in his own marriage, and now offers his advice as well as practical solutions for common issues like communication, frustrations, and more. For couples looking to establish a connection, respect, and love from ADHD-related issues, this workbook is a valuable resource.
When to See a Therapist
ADHD is a serious diagnosis and you may need a therapist or counselor to navigate different parts of your journey. A trained therapist can help you control your symptoms and establish healthy coping mechanisms in order to lead a more fulfilled, happy life. Find a therapist in your area today.
Additional Resources
- Mental Health America
- National Alliance on Mental Health
- MentalHealth.gov
- Online Therapist Directory: Sort therapists by specialty, cost, availability and more. Watch intro videos and see articles written by the therapists you’re considering working with. When you’ve found a good match, book an online therapy appointment with them directly.
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