How to Overcome Perfectionism: 21 Tips for Success
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Originally Published: February 19, 2021
Original Author: Tanya Peterson, NCC, DAIS
Original Reviewer: Lynn Byars, MD, MPH, FACP
Updated: December 12, 2022
Author: No Change
Reviewer: No Change
Primary Changes: Updated for readability and clarity. Reviewed and added relevant resources. Added nine new tips from licensed mental health professionals.