How to Forgive Yourself: 15 Tips For Self Forgiveness
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Primary Changes: Updated for readability and clarity. Reviewed and added relevant resources. Added “Why Is Self Forgiveness Important?” and “The Benefits of Forgiving Yourself”, added six new self-forgiveness tips. New material written by Michelle Risser, LISW-S and reviewed by Kristen Fuller, MD.
Author: Silvi Saxena, MBA, MSW, LSW, CCTP, OSW-C
Reviewer: Dena Westphalen, PharmD