ADHD Paralysis: Why It Happens & How to Overcome It

What Is ADHD Paralysis?

ADHD paralysis occurs when someone with ADHD becomes physically, emotionally, or mentally overwhelmed by a situation or task. ADHD paralysis can feel like “freezing” when faced with a challenge, making it extremely difficult to initiate, engage with, and/or complete a task. For those experiencing ADHD paralysis, daily responsibilities, activities, and duties can feel impossible.

Unfortunately, many adults with ADHD may have struggled with the negative stigma associated with ADHD from an early age, perhaps by being labeled as a procrastinator or lazy. In reality, an ADHD brain is different than a neurotypical brain. Individuals with ADHD may find keeping up with their commitments in a fast-paced world challenging, resulting in frequent paralysis episodes.

What Causes ADHD Paralysis?

Executive dysfunction is a key characteristic of ADHD and the primary cause of ADHD paralysis. Executive dysfunction can make it difficult for individuals with ADHD to plan, organize, and problem-solve, which can result in ADHD paralysis.^{2, 3} Other causes of ADHD paralysis include ADHD overstimulation, which can make beginning a task and staying focused difficult. Additionally, ADHD emotional dysregulation can make a person feel easily overwhelmed and/or frustrated when trying to work.

Types of ADHD Paralysis

There are three types of ADHD paralysis: mental paralysis, task paralysis, and decision paralysis. Each of these types of ADHD paralysis can impact various aspects of a person’s productivity and ability to complete work, relationships, and daily tasks. A person with ADHD can struggle with one or a combination of these throughout their life.

Here are the three types of ADHD paralysis:¹

Mental Paralysis

ADHD mental paralysis occurs when the brain shuts down or becomes “foggy” and can no longer tolerate further stimulation, making it difficult to engage in basic cognitive tasks. Individuals with ADHD often struggle with feeling that their thoughts and cognitive processes are disorganized. Mental paralysis can heighten this experience.

Example of mental paralysis: 

• Inability to create organized and complete thoughts
• Having difficulty conversing with others
• Feeling that thoughts are jumbled or disorganized
• The brain “emptying out” and being unable to form thoughts
• Experiencing mental dissociation, or feeling like the mind is elsewhere

Task Paralysis

ADHD task paralysis is the inability to start or complete a task. Someone experiencing this may delay responsibilities by zoning out or repeating already completed projects. Due to this powerlessness, they may spend hours on a simple job. This can also look like the inability to initiate a new task and may result in task avoidance. Completing a task may also feel extremely difficult.

Example of task paralysis: Task paralysis may look like having a list of chores to complete for the day but avoiding or otherwise being unable to complete these tasks. For example, people will find that they plan to do laundry and put away the dishes on the weekend. Task paralysis makes initiating and completing these chores nearly impossible.

Decision Paralysis

Sometimes known as “choice paralysis,” ADHD decision paralysis occurs when one overthinks or fails to make a decision. This behavior is common when a person with ADHD feels they have too many options to pick from. Often, this experience makes decision-making feel like a nearly impossible task. Even basic decisions, like what to have for dinner, can cause immense anxiety and discomfort for someone living with ADHD.

Example of decision paralysis: Individuals with ADHD will often express having decision paralysis over both small and big decisions. For example, one person many struggle immensely with the decision of what to wear for a graduation ceremony, while another person may feel paralyzed in deciding if they want to return to school or continue on their existing career path. In both instances, this individual with ADHD felt great discomfort and arguably disproportionate anxiety around these experiences.

ADHD Paralysis Symptoms

Untreated symptoms of ADHD paralysis can impact every aspect of life. Not only do they influence productivity at work, but also social health, interpersonal relationships, and decision-making skills.^{1, 2, 4} ADHD paralysis can occur on a spectrum of severity, from mildly disruptive to complete mental shutdown and incapacity.

Potential symptoms of ADHD paralysis include:¹

• Inability to make decisions: This can look like putting off or avoiding making a decision regardless of if that decision is a big or small matter.
• Inability to prioritize: Often, it will be incredibly difficult for a person with ADHD to know what and how to prioritize tasks and how to manage their time.
• Disorganization: Thoughts and behaviors are often disorganized and difficult to manage. This can lead to increased difficulty engaging in day-to-day cognitive tasks or getting things done.
• Anxiety: ADHD paralysis is almost always accompanied by intense ADHD-induced anxiety because of the stress, self-criticism, and embarrassment that the paralysis can cause.
• Procrastination: ADHD-induced procrastination is often the result of paralysis. This can have severe consequences on someone’s ability to complete tasks of daily living or to feel successful at work.
• Brain fog: ADHD brain fog often involves the inability to initiate, complete, and organize cognitive information. It can also resemble dissociation, where a person struggles to be mentally present.
• Mood swings: Paralysis can lead to strong ADHD mood swings because a person may become irritable or feel “stuck” and powerless.
• Avoidance: Avoidance happens when someone completely ignores something they need to do when faced with ADHD paralysis. This can often impact work, relationships, and the ability to complete other important tasks in daily life.
• Social isolation: Someone with ADHD paralysis might socially isolate, meaning that they will avoid social situations when feeling overwhelmed by this experience.

How to Get Out of ADHD Paralysis

Getting out of ADHD paralysis involves practicing time management and learning other coping skills for ADHD. Focus on setting small and achievable goals, remove distractions from your work environment, and try the Pomodoro technique for ADHD to stay focused. It is crucial to be patient with yourself because ADHD paralysis may get in the way of using these skills. Note: at the end of this section we’ve included a free worksheet to help you overcome ADHD paralysis.

Here are ten tips for how to overcome ADHD paralysis:

1. Write Everything Down

For those with ADHD, staying organized is crucial. Adding events, tasks, or obligations to a calendar is a great way to help keep track of your responsibilities. Apps, such as Motion, are specifically developed to help people with ADHD manage their calendars in an efficient way. Forgetting important duties can be incredibly frustrating, so staying on top of them will save you a headache in the future and help reduce feelings of overwhelm.

2. Break Down Tasks

Starting small and taking your time when combating big tasks can help you avoid ADHD paralysis. Crossing items off your to-do list can help you feel accomplished, no matter how insignificant. Additionally, breaking down a goal into smaller tasks allows you to plan out breaks periodically. During those breaks, focus on rewarding yourself so you are refreshed and ready to begin again when the time comes.

3. Designate Specific Times for Projects

Setting a consistent time each day for working on projects can help form a routine. Routines reduce the number of decisions you need to make about work, which helps reduce ADHD paralysis. Also, having different time slots for different tasks can make your goals feel more manageable. Finally, having time slots for each of your projects can help to combat time blindness.

4. Don’t Make Perfection the Goal

Individuals with ADHD often struggle with perfectionism. Setting out to work with the intention of everything being perfect is overwhelming and can trigger ADHD paralysis. Consistently remind yourself that perfection is not the goal and that you do not need to compensate for your ADHD by being “perfect.”

5. Schedule Rewards

Scheduling time to celebrate your accomplishments can provide much-needed motivation to complete a task. Rewards can be as small as grabbing a coffee after work or treating yourself to a new pair of shoes. You’ll only cause unnecessary stress and anxiety if you are too focused on everything else you haven’t accomplished.

6. Take Movement Breaks

Take a movement break to increase mental, emotional, and cognitive stimulation. The brain can easily become bored with trivial tasks. You can proactively avoid a mental “clock out” by recognizing and honoring your limits. When you start to feel overtaxed, give your brain a rest and do some exercise to combat ADHD symptoms. A movement break could be some jumping jacks next to your desk or walking up and down the stairs a few times.

7. Incorporate Something New Into Your Routine

Monotony can be the enemy of productivity, and individuals with ADHD are especially prone to find things boring due to ADHD dopamine deficiencies. Introducing novelty to your daily routine can be incredibly beneficial, even in small doses. Consider trying something new at work or school once a week. Reorganize your cubicle, take a half-day off, or check out a new restaurant near your office. Alternatively, try this out at home by recipe testing or listening to a new music artist.

8. Find What Energizes You

Unmanaged ADHD symptoms can lead to ADHD burnout, which can make starting or finishing a project even more overwhelming. Finding a new hobby or activity that you enjoy can help to combat burnout and make you feel motivated again. It is important to recognize that finding something new that energizes you can be difficult when stuck in a period of ADHD paralysis. If you are struggling, try tagging along with a friend when they are engaging in their favorite hobby, and maybe you will find that it excites you as well.

9. Have Other People Hold You Accountable

Telling other people your goals and having them hold you accountable is a great way to tackle ADHD paralysis. You can ask a family member to check in with you regularly or schedule a reward for yourself and a friend once you complete a task.

For especially boring or challenging tasks, you can try body doubling, where you work alongside another person to accomplish your goal. There are also many different ADHD apps, such as Inflow, that offer accountability coaching, where someone checks in on your progress regularly.

10. Consider Medication

If your ADHD paralysis makes it difficult to even take baby steps, you may want to consider  ADHD medication. Medication, such as Strattera or Adderall, can help alleviate ADHD symptoms and make it easier for you to take small steps toward achieving your goals. To explore medication options, find a psychiatrist specializing in ADHD and book an appointment.

Free ADHD Focus Plan Worksheet

A focus plan can help someone with ADHD estimate the time it will take to complete a task and plan out small steps to accomplish the larger goal.

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Stigma Surrounding ADHD Paralysis

Contrary to some opinions, people with ADHD are not collectively “lazy” or natural procrastinators or using their diagnosis as a crutch. When overloaded with tasks and jobs, individuals with ADHD can quickly experience several mental interruptions, become easily frustrated, or shut down altogether. Of course, this behavior is entirely out of their control, but the people around them may see paralysis as careless or lazy.

The stigma that can result from ADHD paralysis can deeply impact a person’s self-esteem and make them question their own capabilities. This can further worsen ADHD paralysis. Therefore, it is important to remember that ADHD paralysis is an involuntary response to strain, not a choice.

ADHD Paralysis Treatment

Seeking professional support from a therapist who specializes in adult ADHD treatment is also helpful for managing ADHD paralysis. A therapist will help you develop coping skills for ADHD, which will reduce overall ADHD symptoms and, thereby, paralysis. Typically, prescription medications for ADHD are also helpful.

There are many online ADHD treatment platforms that make receiving specialized ADHD care easily accessible and affordable. Additionally, an online psychiatry service, such as Talkiatry or Circle Medical, is an easy way to explore medication options.