Control Issues: Signs, Causes, & Ways to Overcome
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Originally Published: June 22, 2021
Original Author: Davina Tiwari, MSW, RSW, CSFT
Original Reviewer: Trishanna Sookdeo, MD, MPH, FAAFP
Updated: September 14, 2022
Author: No Change
Reviewer: No Change
Primary Changes: Updated for readability and clarity. Reviewed and added relevant resources. Added “What Are Control Issues?” and three new tips to “How to Be Less Controlling”. New material written by Eric Patterson, LPC, and reviewed by Kristen Fuller, MD.