Abandonment Issues: Signs, Causes & How to Overcome
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Primary Changes: Updated for readability and clarity. Reviewed and added relevant resources. Added “How to Help Someone Else Deal With Abandonment Issues”. New material written by Eric Patterson, LPC, and reviewed by Kristen Fuller, MD.
Author: Hailey Shafir, LCMHCS, LPCS, LCAS, CCS
Reviewer: Benjamin Troy, MD