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Gender Diverse Youth: Knowing the Signs of Gender Dysphoria in Children & Teens

Published: September 2, 2020 Updated: August 11, 2022
Published: 09/02/2020 Updated: 08/11/2022
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  • Gender Identity and Your ChildGender Identity
  • Is My Child Gender Nonconforming or Transgender?Gender Nonconforming vs Transgender
  • Signs & Treatments of Gender Dysphoria During DevelopmentSigns & Treatments
  • Statistics of Transgender Youth in the United StatesStatistics
  • How to Best Support Your Child With Gender DysphoriaSupport Your Child
  • Additional ResourcesResources
  • Gender Diverse Youth InfographicsInfographics
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Children and adolescents with gender dysphoria will usually be persistent in their desire to be seen and treated as the gender they align with versus their designated gender at birth. Children who may experience gender dysphoria will often want to be seen and treated as the gender identity they most align with.

As a caregiver raising a transgender child, or a gender diverse child, the attitude and approach you take toward supporting their exploration and understanding of their gender will aid in their overall adjustment and identity development.

Gender Identity and Your Child

Early on as children we begin to learn messages about gender, even before we are born. From gender revealing parties to the colors of the nursery, we are being conditioned to believe there are certain and ultimately limiting ways of being a particular gender.

Consider all of the messaging you heard regarding what it means to be a boy or girl:

“boys don’t cry”

“girls play with dolls”

“boys wear blue, while girls wear pink”

Oftentimes, when parents and caregivers learn their child is gender diverse, in other words – their child expresses their gender differently from the one they were born with, the fears they experience are mixed with the myths and stereotypes that are embedded in our culture regarding gender. However, these myths and stereotypes are dangerous and lead to negative messaging for all individuals, particularly trans and gender diverse youth.1

A large part of parenting gender diverse children will require examining our own experiences of gender growing up. What other messages have you heard about gender?

There are some basics you can know as a parent to understand gender in supporting your child:

  • Gender is a person’s innermost concept of self as male, female, a combination of both, or neither; it is based on more of a spectrum, with all individuals expressing and identifying with varying degrees of both masculinity and femininity.2
  • Gender identity involves a complex makeup of sociocultural factors reflecting a person’s internal sense of oneself—in other words, what gender a person knows themselves to be and how they want others to see them as.
  • Sex: Gender is different from sex, in that sex [sex assigned at birth] typically refers to how a newborn is determined male, female, or intersex based on their sex organs and/or secondary sex characteristics. Although social expectations of gender are typically mapped out onto the sex a person is assigned at birth,3 gender is not limited to or defined by the anatomical and/or biological aspects of a person.
  • Cisgender refers to a person whose gender identity aligns with expectations typically associated with their sex assigned at birth; for example, if you are born male (i.e., determined to have a penis) and your gender identity (i.e., innermost concept of self) is also male.
  • Transgender is considered an umbrella term that comprises all individuals whose gender identity does not conform to expectations based on their gender/sex assigned at birth;4 transgender people identify along the gender spectrum from masculinity to femininity, but also identify as a gender that is different from the one they were assigned at birth.2
  • Gender nonconforming, gender variant, gender expansive, gender creative, and gender diverse are mostly interchangeable terms that describe youth who explore and express their gender along the spectrum that is different than the sex/gender they were assigned at birth; however, it does not necessarily mean the child identitifes as transgender or experiences gender dysphoria.
  • Gender ≠ sexual orientation—sexual orientation refers to a person’s sexual and/or romantic attraction to people of the same gender, different genders, both, or neither. It is common to see many children who later on identify as lesbian, gay or bisexual adopt gender diverse behaviors. However, being transgender is regarding a person’s identity rather than their attraction. Everyone, including cisgender and transgender people, have both sexual orientation and gender identity, which means a trans person can identify as straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual, queer, and/or any other sexual identity

Whew! What was it like reviewing these terms? How did you react as you read over them? Consider the following additional questions as you reflect on gender diversity:3

  • How did you express your gender as a child? As an adolescent?
  • What messages did you hear about gender growing up that were disempowering or not affirming?
  • What are additional areas related to gender diversity that you would like to know more about in relation to your experiences of gender growing up?

As a parent and/or caregiver of a gender diverse child, it is important to reflect on these questions because you may or may not be realizing how you are modeling unhelpful or shameful messages regarding gender to your child. It will also help you explore how you can be more affirming as a parent of a gender diverse youth.

gender unicorn - TSER

Source: TSER 2016

The Transgender Student Educational Resources5 created the above Gender Unicorn graphic to help individuals understand their gender and sexual identity. Consider filling out the Gender Unicorn as a starting point in understanding your child’s gender identity. You can fill it out by placing an X on each line reflecting your level of alignment with each of the areas (i.e., gender identity, gender expression, sex assigned at birth, physical and romantic attraction).

Is My Child Gender Nonconforming or Transgender?

It is common for children to engage in gender nonconforming behaviors throughout their development such as in their play or in their dress. You may find that little boys will be curious about playing with dolls or little girls will want to dress up in boys clothing, and vice versa. This behavior is normal and a common part of childhood development. It does not necessarily mean they will identify as transgender.

With that being said, other times if you observe this behavior, it may mean that your child is transgender and may experience gender dysphoria. Generally, determining whether a child is transgender versus gender nonconforming is based on their consistent, insistent, and persistent desire to be seen and treated as the gender they align with that is typically different from the gender they were assigned at birth.6,7,8.

For example, if you find that your child occasionally dresses up in clothes or plays with toys that are typically associated with the opposite gender, it does not directly mean your child is transgender. However, if your child repeatedly insists over the course of several months that they are a different gender than their designated one at birth, then they are most likely transgender.

Transgender children will begin to recognize their gender is different from the one they were assigned at birth as early as 2-4 years.4,6 This can persist into their later stages of childhood and adolescence, and is conveyed through their identity, expression, or both.7,8

Signs & Treatments of Gender Dysphoria During Development

Gender dysphoria refers to the persistent emotional and psychological distress a child, adolescent, and/or adult experiences due to the disconnect between their internal sense of who they are and their designated sex at birth.10,11 Gender dysphoria is not considered pathological or a mental illness that can be cured. Instead, the diagnosis reflects the ongoing internal mismatch individuals experience between their gender identity and designated sex at birth.

Helping and medical professionals refer to this experience as gender dysphoria because it can cause a lot of pain and emotional distress. People who identify as transgender as well as gender nonconforming/non-binary can report dysphoria and will seek support to navigate their experiences.4

Young Children

At an early age, children become aware of their gender identity. Children as early as 2-4 years are typically aware of their gender and able to express it to the adults around them. It is normal for children to explore their genitals and engage in all forms of gender expression. Having said that, transgender children will begin to persistently insist that they are treated and referred to by the gender they align with.

School-Aged Children

School-aged children (i.e., 5-9 years) will continue to demonstrate this persistent identification, and may frequently become upset when forced to abide with rules that limit their gender expression. These children are at increased risk for distress, which can manifest in bodily harm, poor school performance, anxiety, depression, or even suicidal behaviors.

Although not all gender diverse children will experience dysphoria, children who do will frequently and persistently engage in the following behaviors:6,12,13

  • Consistent statements they are the opposite gender
  • Persistent desire to “get rid” of their genitals
  • Feelings of disgust and/or embarrassment by their body
  • Consistent rejection of typically gendered behavior
  • Express rejection and/or trauma from the bodily changes that occur during puberty

Typically at this stage of development, gender-affirming medical and helping professionals will support the pre-pubescent child in social transition to support their gender identity. Social transition involves the child to be referred to by their chosen name, pronouns, and changing their dress to align with their gender identity.

This process typically involves the parents/caregivers, school, and other organizations where the child receives care and support.14 It is common for parents to feel worried or fear how their child will be treated, such as bullying and/or being misgendered. Helping professionals can support the family by exploring and understanding any emotions or experiences incurred by the social transition process.

Generally, the social transition process has proven to significantly reduce emotional and psychological distress experienced by transgender children and enhance their overall wellbeing. It is also a reversible process where if the child later desires to transition back or to another gender is possible. Allowing the child to explore and understand their gender will aid in their overall identity development and most often children rarely detransition.4

Adolescents

During adolescence, it is also normal for teenagers to experiment with their gender expression. For example, youth may wear clothing and/or style their hair in a way that is typically associated with the opposite gender. Gender diverse teens do not always experience gender dysphoria. However, for those that do, puberty can exacerbate gender dysphoria for transgender youth, as the mismatch between their gender identity and designated sex intensifies.

Teens who experience gender dysphoria will persistently and consistently exhibit these behaviors:1,9,15

  • Strong feelings that their gender identity differs from their designated sex at birth
  • Frequent statements that they feel unsure about their gender
  • Insist on being referred to by a different name and use a different pronoun like he, she, or they
  • Persistent desire to “get rid of” the physical signs of their sex or have those of a different sex—for example, your teen might say they wish to use medication to make their body more feminine or masculine appearing

Other signs of gender dysphoria in teens include:

  • Avoidance or aversion toward going to school
  • Displaying symptoms of anxiety, depression, and/or other co-occurring mental health issues
  • Engaging in self-harm and/or increase in suicidal behaviors

During earlier stages of puberty (i.e., 8-14 years), gender-affirming medical professionals will follow the the Endocrine Society16 and World Professional Association for Transgender Health17 standards of care in advocating for the use of puberty blockers to delay the onset of irreversible bodily changes that occur during puberty.

These hormones are called gonadotropin-releasing hormone (GnRH) agonists and allow for youth and their families to have more time to explore and understand their gender before making more permanent decisions.4 They are also reversible, meaning that if the child desires to detransition or transition to another gender, they can. Helping professionals will support the youth and their family in developing the emotional and cognitive skills to make further decisions regarding their transition process.

During later stages of puberty (i.e., 14-18 years), masculinising and/or femininzing hormones will be explored in further aiding the medical transition of the transgender youth. The ES suggests that youth begin cross-sex hormone by the age 16.16 Although, in many countries, like the United States, gender-affirming medical professionals will suggest starting these medications as early as age 12-14 so youth can transition to their affirmed gender and experience puberty along with their peers.

There are several considerations for this process that can be discussed with your medical professional. For example, for youth who are already on hormone blockers, there is concern about achieving the appropriate bone density. Youth and their families can coordinate with their medical professional to determine if hormone blockers and cross-sex hormones can be used conjointly, or if the youth should first stop the hormone blockers and then begin the masculinzing and/or feminising hormone replacement.14,16

During this time, helping professionals will help youth and their families explore their goals, possible benefits and risks of medical transition, such as fertility, costs, and self-care plan.

Statistics of Transgender Youth in the United States

The Williams Institute18 found that 150,000 youth ages 13-17 identify as transgender. Although this is considered the youngest age group in the study, it comprises the highest estimated group of individuals who identify as transgender in the United States. In another report, trans youth are more likely than their LGBTQ+ counterparts to experience bullying, family rejection, homelessness, and physical and sexual abuse at higher rates.19

This is exacerbated for Black and Brown trans youth who are more likely to be discriminated against. It is also found that Black and Brown trans youth are overrepresented in the juvenile justice system facing greater structural racism, LGBTQ+ stigma, and violence than their peers.20

If trans youth are supported, embraced, and accepted by their families, research shows that they go on to having greater quality of life as adults. This support is considered a protective factor against bullying, stigma, and discrimination within the larger society and aids in the overall wellbeing of the trans youth.21

Source: Williams Institute

How to Best Support Your Child With Gender Dysphoria

It is common for parents of transgender youth to feel concerned that their child may be going through a phase. However, recognizing the signs of gender dysphoria are not only important in supporting your youth’s gender identity, but will also serve as a protective factor in their overall wellbeing.

Gender dysphoria is quite distressing for those who experience it. That is an understatement, really! Transgender youth often feel that they need to hide their gender identity in fear of being rejected or judged by their loved ones. Most often, youth will internalize the negative messaging associated with their gender if parents and caregivers are not careful in approaching them with support and acceptance.

The Family Acceptance Project21 demonstrated that parents and/or caregivers play a critical role in the overall wellbeing of transgender youth. Family rejection increases the risk of mental and health problems.

LGBTQ+ youth whose families were highly rejecting were:

  • 8 times more likely to have attempted suicide
  • 6 times more likely to report higher levels of depression
  • 3 times more likely to use illegal drugs
  • 3 times more likely to be at high risk for contracting HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases

For caregivers and families of LGBTQ+ youth, being more accepting and less rejecting of your child will lead to better outcomes for them. The most important thing we can do for our LGBTQ+ youth is believing that they can have a happy life as an adult. There are several ways we can support our children.

Other ways to help your child cope with their gender dysphoria include:

  • Talk with your child—listen to understand their thoughts and emotions with nonjudgement
  • Connect your child with LGBTQ+ resources
  • Search for a gender-affirming therapist and medical health professionals to coordinate care for your child
  • Be patient—your child may be exploring their gender and/or trying to communicate their dysphoria
  • Ask your child how they want to be addressed—if you make a mistake with their chosen name and/or pronoun, that is okay, correct your mistake and move on
  • Support your child’s identity even if it makes you feel uncomfortable
  • Tell your child that you love and support them
  • Advocate for your child—meet with teachers, the principal, school counselors, and/or other stakeholders to ensure a successful school year
  • Join your local PFLAG chapter
  • Continue your gender education and learning

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For Further Reading

To learn more and find support, consider checking out the following resources:

  • PFLAG
  • Gender Spectrum
  • National Center for Transgender Equality
  • The Brown Boi Project

Gender Diverse Youth Infographics

Gender Diverse Youth Characteristics of Children and Adolescents with Gender Dysphoria Number of American Youth Identifying Themselves as Transgender

Questions About Gender Diversity That Parents Can Reflect On When Can You Tell If Your Child is Transgender Gender Dysphoria and Development

Gender Dysphoria and Development 2 Ways to Help Your Child Cope with Gender Dysphoria

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