Psychotherapy: How It Works & Who It’s Right For

What Is Psychotherapy?

Unlike psychiatrists who treat mental health symptoms with medication, therapists use talk therapy to help clients address root issues, learn more about themselves, and make positive behavior changes that improve their mental health.^1,5

Psychotherapy vs. Counseling

Today, most therapists would agree that psychotherapy, therapy, and counseling all describe the same treatment. Psychotherapy is a somewhat dated term that was created to describe early methods of counseling, which have since evolved and expanded to include a wide range of different types, styles, and approaches.

Does Psychotherapy Work?

Research indicates that most people benefit from therapy. In fact 75% of people who attend therapy report benefitting from their sessions, faring better than 79% of those who do not seek treatment.^2,5 Research shows that therapy is effective for almost everyone regardless of their age, diagnosis or even what kind of therapy they receive.^2,4,5

In fact, therapy provides equal, and sometimes even better, results for people than medication alone. Compared to medication, improvements in therapy also tend to happen more quickly and last longer, even continuing after a person completes treatment.^2,4 Because therapy is safer and has fewer adverse effects than medication, it is considered a frontline treatment for most mental health issues.

How Does Psychotherapy Work?

Researchers know that therapy works, but are less clear on how or why it works. What has become clear from research is that the type of therapy a person gets only plays a small part in the process. Most researchers agree that finding a “good fit” between the client and therapist is the most important factor that determines whether therapy will be helpful. ^4,5,6

The factors that have the most influence on the effectiveness of therapy include:^4,6

• Personal preference: What style, approach, and type of therapy a person prefers, including the characteristics they look for in a therapist
• Expectations: Whether the client expects to benefit from therapy and how much they expect to benefit, with too low or too high of expectations leading to poorer results
• Trust: Whether the client feels comfortable opening up to a therapist and the extent to which they feel their therapist is knowledgeable, trustworthy, and truly invested in them
• Collaboration: Whether the client and therapist are able to build a collaborative relationship where they communicate and work well together
• Consensus: Whether the client feels like they are on the same page with the therapist about what the problem is, what the goal is, and how to reach it
• Engagement level: How motivated and engaged the client is in therapy and whether they are ready, willing, and able to make changes in their life

What Can Psychotherapy Help With?

Psychotherapy can help people struggling with a number of different issues and problems. Most people seeking therapy are struggling with stress, difficult emotions, or symptoms of an underlying mental health issue like anxiety or depression. Therapy can help people find relief from these concerns, as well as help them identify and resolve issues in their work, relationships, or other areas that are impeding their quality of life.

Psychotherapy has proven benefits for people struggling with:^2,7,8

• Anxiety disorders (i.e. phobias, social anxiety, panic attacks)
• Mood disorders (i.e. depression and bipolar, may also require meds)
• Eating disorders (may require combination of therapy & nutritional support)
• Attention deficit disorders (may require combination of meds & therapy)
• Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) (may also require medication)
• Posttraumatic Stress Disorder (or PTSD)
• Relationship issues like conflict, infidelity, or separation
• Grief or loss related to the death of a loved one
• Low self-esteem or self-worth issues
• Stress related to work, life transitions or imbalances
• Chronic pain or chronic health issues (in coordination with medical care)
• Substance use disorders and addictions (sometimes combined with meds)
• Personality disorders (i.e. borderline personality disorder
• Schizophrenia or psychosis (may require combination of meds & therapy)
• Sleep disorders (i.e. insomnia)
• Sexual disorders (i.e. erectile dysfunction)

Common Benefits of Psychotherapy

There are many proven physical, social, and emotional benefits of therapy. Many times, the benefits in therapy happen early on. Between 20-50% of clients in psychotherapy describe “sudden gains” or rapid improvements, which usually occur before the sixth therapy session.³

Some of the improvements that people who receive therapy report include:

• Fewer, less frequent, or less intense symptoms
• Improved ability to cope with stress
• Improved mood or energy levels
• Improved ability to function, focus, or complete tasks
• Positive behavior changes or healthier habits
• Better decision making and higher rates of goal achievement
• Improved communication and intimacy in relationships
• Feeling more present, less distracted, and less numb

What Are the Types of Psychotherapy?

Different therapists use specific approaches and styles of therapy to help clients, and also may offer therapy in different formats or methods. There are several different formats and types of psychotherapy that may be available to you.

Here are the most common formats for therapy:

• Individual therapy is the most common type of therapy, and involves meeting one-on-one with a licensed therapist or counselor. Individual therapy can be helpful to address mental health issues, past trauma, or personal issues affecting your mental health.
• Group therapy consists of a group of people struggling with a similar issue (i.e. addiction, grief, divorce, eating disorders, etc.) and is normally led by a licensed counselor. People who need personal, in-depth support may want to combine group therapy with individual therapy, which provides more individualized treatment.
• Couples therapy involves a couple who meets with a therapist together for sessions. Couples therapy is a great option for people struggling with relationship problems rather than individual issues. The goal of couples therapy is normally to improve communication and closeness, and address issues like infidelity, intimacy issues, separation, or conflict.
• Family therapy is another type of therapy offered to families who need help improving communication and resolving conflict. Family therapy is often recommended when children or teens enter therapy, or when there is an issue or problem impacting the whole family. Family therapy can also be helpful for people with specific issues like substance use, eating disorders, or schizophrenia who may need ongoing support.

Types of psychotherapy

Therapists use a wide range of different styles, approaches, and types of therapy to help their clients. Because there are so many different options for psychotherapy, it’s good to know a little about each in order to find a style that you think will work best for you. While no one type of therapy is better than another, there may be one (or more than one) type that feels like a better match for your needs and preferences.

Here are some of the more common types of psychotherapy:⁸

• Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) involves helping clients identify and change unhelpful thoughts and behaviors that contribute to their stress and symptoms. CBT is commonly used to treat anxiety disorders, OCD, PTSD, mood disorders, eating disorders, substance use disorders, sleep problems, and behavior issues.
• Exposure therapy for anxiety disorders, phobias, and panic attacks as well as exposure and response prevention therapy for OCD, which both teach relaxation skills and help clients face feared situations they normally avoid.
• Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) is a structured, skill-based treatment that can be taught in group or individual therapy and involves learning mindfulness, emotions regulation, and interpersonal skills. It is a common treatment for people with borderline personality disorder, self-harm, and people who struggle with emotion regulation and unhealthy relationship patterns.
• Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) involves helping clients learn to accept and experience emotions using mindfulness and acceptance skills, without getting caught into unhelpful thoughts and reactions. It can help people struggling with depression, anxiety, OCD, substance use, and even PTSD.
• Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is a type of therapy that involves using guided eye movement and brief processing to help clients resolve traumatic memories and negative feelings and beliefs. It is most often used to help people diagnosed with PTSD.
• Motivational interviewing is a style of coaching used to help people make behavior changes, and is often used by health and mental health professionals to help people with healthy lifestyle changes like quitting smoking, losing weight or giving up drugs or alcohol.
• Person-centered therapy is a therapy approach focused on building strong relationships between a therapist and their client. Most therapists use person-centered strategies along with other types of therapy to make sure their clients feel heard, understood, and supported.
• Solution Focused Therapy is a practical form of therapy that uses problem solving and decision making strategies to help clients address their issues, usually in six sessions or less.
• Couples therapy and family therapy have their own set of styles, most of which aim to improve communication and closeness within the relationship. Common types of couples and family therapy include the Gottman method for couples, Emotionally Focused Couples therapy for couples, and Internal Family Systems.
• Less common types of therapy include hypnotherapy, somatic experiencing, art therapy, psychodynamic therapy, and psychospiritual approaches. These alternative approaches may be preferred by people who are creative, spiritual, or prefer more holistic approaches.

Who Can Offer Psychotherapy?

Psychotherapy can only be offered by a licensed individual who has at least a graduate degree in social work, psychology, or counseling. Most therapists have a masters degree and at least one license that allows them to provide counseling within their state.

Some of the more common types of licenses a therapist may hold include:

• Social work license (Licensed Clinical Social Worker)
• Professional counselor license (Licensed Mental Health Counselor or Licensed Professional Counselor)
• Addiction specialist (Master Addiction Counselor or Licensed Clinical Addiction Specialist)
• Marriage and family therapist (Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist)

Psychiatrists are medical doctors (MD’s) who specialize in psychiatric medication. They typically do not offer counseling, but instead provide brief consultation appointments for people interested in medication to treat an underlying disorder like depression, anxiety or addiction. Psychologists hold a masters or doctoral degree in psychology, and may or may not offer counseling. Some psychologists provide psychotherapy, while others only offer testing and evaluations.

What to Expect in Psychotherapy

If you have never received therapy before, you might wonder what to expect in a typical session. Normally, the first therapy appointment is all about information gathering, but future sessions tend to be more targeted around accomplishing the goals you want to achieve in therapy.

Some of the common tasks in therapy include:

• Insight building: Your therapist might help you develop more insight and awareness into yourself and your behaviors by asking you questions and helping you explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences. You might also spend time processing through past experiences to learn about how they continue to impact you.
• Processing emotions: Your therapist might help you process through difficult emotions and experiences in sessions by helping you talk about these issues and explore their impact, while providing you with empathy and support.
• Changing negative thoughts: In therapy, you may be asked to identify unhelpful or negative thoughts that are making your stress or symptoms worse. Your therapist may also teach you certain skills to shift your perspective or think about yourself, your relationships, and your future in new, more helpful ways.
• Behavior change: If you need or want to make a change in your behavior, this might be something you discuss and address in session. Your therapist may help you identify goals, things that get in the way of these goals, and small steps you can take to begin working on them.
• Communication skills: If you have a relationship problem or conflict, your therapist may help you learn different methods of communicating how you feel and what you want and need from others.
• Coping skills: Most people need help learning better ways to cope with stress and painful emotions, so coping skills are a common focus in therapy sessions. Some examples of coping skills include mindfulness, skills that help you reframe negative thoughts, and identifying relaxing and enjoyable activities that decrease stress.

Cost of Psychotherapy

The average cost of therapy in the US is between $100-200 per session, but tends to be higher in major cities like Los Angeles or New York City. In these more expensive cities, it isn’t uncommon for a therapist to charge $250 or more per session. Often, people who want couples therapy need to pay out-of-pocket, as most insurance plans do not cover couples therapy.

If you have insurance, it’s a good idea to contact your insurance company to get a better understanding of what coverage you have for therapy. Often, seeing an in-network therapist will save you money, even if you have a high-deductible plan.

Some questions to ask your insurer include:⁵

• What kind of coverage do I have for outpatient behavioral health/mental health?
• Do I have a copay for outpatient therapy (aka psychotherapy)?
• Do I have a deductible to meet before insurance will begin to pay?
• What is the in-network rate for outpatient therapy sessions (if you have a deductible)?
• Is there a limit to the number of sessions I can receive per year under my plan?
• Does my plan cover individual, group, and couples therapy sessions?
• Is online therapy/teletherapy covered by my plan?
• What is the cost difference between seeing an in-network vs out-of-network therapist?
• Can you provide me with a list of in-network therapists?

Aside from health insurance, there are some employers that offer Employee Assistance Programs (EAPs). Under these plans, you may be eligible for a certain number of free counseling sessions each year, as long as you see someone approved by your EAP. If you aren’t sure if you have EAP benefits, you can check with someone from HR within your company or consult your employee benefit handbook.

If you are unemployed, on disability, or have a low income, you may also qualify for state assistance through Medicaid or Medicare. Often, you can check online or with your state’s Department of Health and Human Services for more information about eligibility or how to apply for Medicaid or Medicare. Some states have a separate set of funds for people who don’t qualify for Medicaid but are in need of mental health or substance use treatment.

Some therapists offer reduced rates for clients who cannot afford to pay full price. Because many therapists have given up their offices and are providing 100% online sessions, they may be able to offer reduced rates for online sessions. Today, there are a number of ways to find affordable treatment for people who cannot afford to pay the full price of psychotherapy.

How to Find a Psychotherapist

Most people begin their search for a therapist online by doing a google search or using an online therapist directory. These directories often provide people with options to narrow their search by location, insurance type, cost, and area of specialty. If you need to find an in-network therapist, you can also call the number on the back of your insurance card or login to an online portal to find in-network therapists.

Because finding someone you feel comfortable with is so important, it’s a good idea to ask for a consultation call or to email a therapist with some questions before booking your first appointment. This can help you get more information about their style and approach of therapy. Most therapists offer free 10-20 minute phone or online consultations to help clients make this decision.

Some questions to consider asking before booking a first appointment include:⁵

• Are you accepting new patients? If so, when is your first available appointment?
• What are your areas of specialty?
• Do you have experience treating people with my issue?
• What kind of therapy style and approach do you use?
• What could I expect in a session with you?
• What is your availability like? (especially important if you need evening or weekend appointments)
• Do you offer sessions in-person or online?
• Are you in-network with my insurance (if applicable)? If so, do you direct bill?
• What are your rates (if not using insurance)?
• Do you offer a sliding scale or reduced fee (if you can’t afford the rate)?

Final Thoughts on Psychotherapy

Psychotherapy is an effective treatment for a range of different mental health and addiction disorders. Even if you don’t have a diagnosis, therapy can help you reduce your stress or anxiety, and make positive changes that improve your quality of life. Most people who choose to see a therapist benefit from the experience, even when they only attend a few sessions. Finding a therapist who is a good match for your personality, needs, and preferences is important, and it’s worth the time to find the best fit for you.