Signs You’re Socially Awkward & How to Deal With It
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Primary Changes: Updated for readability and clarity. Reviewed and added relevant resources. Added “Awkwardness, Anxiety, & Introversion”, “Does Social Awkwardness Serve a Purpose?”, revised “How to Not Be Socially Awkward”. New material written by Lydia Antonatos, LMHC, and reviewed by Kristen Fuller, MD.
Author: Silvi Saxena, MBA, MSW, LSW, CCTP, OSW-C
Reviewer: Kristen Fuller, MD