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Real Event OCD: What It Is, Symptoms, & Treatment

Published: December 13, 2022 Updated: January 25, 2023
Published: 12/13/2022 Updated: 01/25/2023
Andrea Brognano LMHC,LPC, NCC
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Andrea Brognano

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  • What Is Real Event OCD?Real Event OCD
  • Symptoms of Real Event OCDSymptoms
  • Examples of Real Event OCDExamples
  • How Is Real Event OCD Diagnosed?How Is It Diagnosed?
  • Real Event OCD Treatment OptionsTreatment Options
  • Tips for Coping With Real Event OCDTips for Coping
  • Final ThoughtsConclusion
  • Additional ResourcesResources
  • Real Event OCD InfographicsInfographics
Andrea Brognano LMHC,LPC, NCC
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Andrea Brognano

LMHC, LPC, NCC

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Real Event OCD is a disorder marked by obsessive thoughts regarding past events that one feels resulted in negative impacts. A person is filled with guilt or regret, as they believe that their own actions or behavior caused these effects. Fortunately, there are both therapeutic and medicinal treatments available for those struggling with this condition.

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What Is Real Event OCD?

Real event OCD (aka real-life OCD) is a type of OCD characterized by a fixation on guilt associated with past events. A person with this disorder becomes fixated on their own actions during this event and how they may have played a role in any negative consequences. The event might be as small as a simple conversation or something on a grander scale. Those with real event OCD will continuously question how things could have been improved had they acted differently. Often, they will continue to do this until they find validation in their actions.

When experiencing real event OCD, a person moves through a cycle of validating their own feelings and being triggered by memory of the event, thus perpetuating their guilt. A person might fear their actions being found out or getting in trouble with authorities.

Real event OCD is comprised of:

  • The event: This is the actual occurrence that precedes a person’s guilt.
  • The obsessions: These are the irrational and exaggerated thought patterns revolving around the event.
  • The compulsions: These are a person’s steps taken to relieve guilt and validate emotions temporarily.

Symptoms of Real Event OCD

A person with real event OCD will experience typical symptoms of OCD along with intense feelings of guilt and self-doubt. This guilt stems from feelings that the individual was the source of any negative impacts of an event. For example, a person might blame themselves for having their car broken into if they left something of value inside, as it must have enticed someone to break in.1

Symptoms of real event OCD may include:

  • Intense feelings of guilt
  • Rumination on past actions
  • Excessive shame about actions
  • Intrusive thoughts about an event

Examples of Real Event OCD

Obsessions and compulsions will both be present in those with real event OCD. The compulsions a person experiences are attempts to alleviate the symptoms of anxiety that stem from their obsessions. They include the actions that one takes in order to ease their mind of intrusive thoughts about an event. This may look different for everyone, but the goal of these compulsions are the same–easing feelings of guilt and shame.

Common obsessions in real event OCD include:

  • Worrying that their past actions have changed someone’s life in a negative way
  • Feeling they are a bad person because of their past actions
  • Thoughts of extreme punishment by authorities
  • Fear of judgment
  • False ideas that others have lied about or manipulated information about a past event

Common compulsions in real event OCD include:

  • Seeking ways to be punished for past actions
  • Imagining different outcomes to an event
  • Seeking validation and reassurance from others regarding actions
  • Researching consequences of behavior and the extremes to which a person can be punished
  • Evaluating the event and how it relates to other areas of one’s life
  • An intense urge to confess actions to others

How Is Real Event OCD Diagnosed?

Like any mental health disorder, receiving a correct diagnosis is critical in ensuring a person is provided with the best treatment. A diagnosis of real event OCD may be provided using a screening tool, which is a set of questions designed to identify the components of the disorder–the obsessions, compulsions, and triggers. A licensed clinician, medical doctor, or psychiatrist may provide this test.

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Real Event OCD Treatment Options

Once an individual receives a diagnosis, the next step is to seek treatment. Therapy is generally the first and most effective option, as it provides an individual the tools they need to change thought and behavior patterns. Because of the intensity of symptoms in real event OCD, it is crucial to find proper treatment so that one’s obsessions do not spill into other areas of their life.

Exposure Therapy

Exposure therapy is a form of cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) that works to reframe an individual’s thought patterns. It is generally one of the most common forms of therapy for those with real event OCD.2 Through exposure therapy for OCD, an individual is taught to reprocess events through exposure scripts. These allow an individual to relieve an event without being physically present in it, and offer them the opportunity to understand why their actions were not as impactful as they believed them to be.

Medications

Medication for OCD may be a beneficial addition to a person’s treatment plan, because they can help with decreasing one’s anxiety. SSRIs and SNRIs may be prescribed to those with real event OCD. The main difference between SSRIs and SNRIs is that while SSRIs inhibit serotonin reuptake and destruction, therefore increasing levels of serotonin, SNRIs also increase levels of norepinephrine, as well as serotonin.

Common medications that may be prescribed to treat symptoms of real event OCD include:

  • Prozac (fluoxetine)*
  • Zoloft (sertraline)*
  • Lexapro (escitalopram)*
  • Paxil (paroxetine)*
  • Celexa (citalopram)*

*These medication have a black box warning, the most serious kind of warning from the FDA for a risk of suicidal thoughts and behaviors in certain people. You should talk with your doctor about these risks before starting any of these medications.

Other Therapeutic Options

While exposure therapy is believed to be the most effective form of therapy for real event OCD, there are many other options available. Several other therapy options may be used in conjunction with exposure response therapy (ERP). It’s important to find the right therapist who will utilize approaches that work best for you. Using an online therapist directory is a great way to do so.

Other therapy methods that may be used when treating real event OCD include:

  • Group therapy: Group therapy allows an individual to connect with others experiencing similar struggles. This sense of community helps a person feel less alone in their diagnosis.
  • Acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT):  ACT is a form of therapy that teaches specific mindfulness techniques and can help an individual tap into their present self, rather than focus on reliving an event.
  • Family therapy: A helpful part of any treatment plan is making sure that a person has a good support system. Family therapy offers a place for everyone in a family dynamic to discuss and share their feelings, and learn how to assist the person who is diagnosed.

6 Tips for Coping With Real Event OCD

Outside of treatment, it’s important for those with real event OCD to adopt healthy coping mechanisms in order to better navigate day-to-day life. These may include practices such as mindfulness, grounding techniques, and journaling. Engaging in these practices can help increase one’s self-worth, thus decreasing overwhelming feelings of guilt.3
Here are six tips for coping with real event OCD:

  1. Try grounding techniques: Using grounding techniques helps a person remain centered in the present moment, not past events.
  2. Practice mindfulness: Similar to grounding techniques, mindfulness brings awareness to a person’s body and mind, keeping them focused on the here-and-now.
  3. Spend time with loved ones: Spending time with the people we value most can help decrease negative self-talk, as it provides validation that we are loved and appreciated by others.
  4. Change your diet: The saying goes that you are what you eat. Changing your diet will help you feel better both physically and mentally.
  5. Create a better sleeping schedule: Adopting a healthier sleeping schedule will help you feel less on edge as a result of sleep deprivation.
  6. Journal: When we keep negative thoughts combined to our minds, they can develop further into obsessions and actions (compulsions). By journaling, we can rid ourselves of these thoughts and focus on healing.

Final Thoughts

While real event OCD can impact a person in numerous ways, there are treatment options available. It is important to seek one or a combination of these options, as they will help get you on your way to feeling your best.

Additional Resources

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For Further Reading

  • Find Support Groups for OCD Near You | ocdtalk.com
  • International OCD Foundation | Home (iocdf.org)

Real Event OCD Infographics

What Is Real Event OCD   Real Events OCD Treatment Options   Tips for Coping with Real Event OCD

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  • Real, E. et al. (2011). Stressful life events at onset of obsessive-compulsive disorder are associated with a distinct clinical pattern. Depression and Anxiety, 28(5), 367–376. https://doi.org/10.1002/da.20792

  • Valderrama, J. et al. (2020). Greater history of traumatic event exposure and PTSD associated with comorbid body dysmorphic disorder in a large OCD cohort. Psychiatry Research, 289, 112962–112962. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.psychres.2020.112962

  • Jantz, Wall, K., & Gurian, M. (2021). The Anxiety Reset: A Life-Changing Approach to Overcoming Fear, Stress, Worry, Panic Attacks, OCD and More. Tyndale House Publishers

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