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  • What Is Erotomania?What Is Erotomania?
  • What Are the Types?What Are the Types?
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  • What Causes It?What Causes It?
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Erotomania: Definition, Symptoms, & Treatments

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Published: November 27, 2023
  • What Is Erotomania?What Is Erotomania?
  • What Are the Types?What Are the Types?
  • Common Symptoms & SignsCommon Symptoms & Signs
  • How Psychotic Breaks LookHow Psychotic Breaks Look
  • What Causes It?What Causes It?
  • Possible ComplicationsPossible Complications
  • How It's DiagnosedHow It's Diagnosed
  • Treatment OptionsTreatment Options
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  • Additional ResourcesAdditional Resources
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Erotomania is the delusional belief that someone is in love with you, accompanied by fixations on unrealistic signs and signals of reciprocated affection. The love interest is typically a stranger, celebrity, or person of higher social status. Individuals may resort to stalking and harassing the person of focus, sometimes leading to legal implications, strained relationships, and incarceration.

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What Is Erotomania?

Erotomania refers to delusion beliefs of reciprocated love or affection, even if these individuals have never met. For example, an individual experiencing erotomania may believe a musician sends them hidden messages in songs or their boss professes affection in coded emails. These delusions can be all-consuming, sometimes leading to stalking or violence.

Erotomanic behavior often increases when the object of desire ignores or rejects attempts to achieve contact. A famous example was John Hinkley Jr., who developed an obsession with actress Jodie Foster after seeing her in the movie Taxi Driver. His attempted assassination of President Ronald Reagan was part of an escalating series of events involving stalking and trying to impress Foster, who he believed returned his affections.1

Historically, erotomania has been called de Clerambault syndrome after the physician who first described the condition.2 Erotomania as a mental health diagnosis is relatively rare and falls under the category of delusional disorder. Delusions are fixed false beliefs despite evidence to the contrary. These symptoms often present in other significant mental health issues, such as bipolar disorder or schizophrenia.

Erotomania Vs. Infatuation

Erotomania is very different from infatuation. While infatuation is an intense desire toward a love interest, erotomania is the delusional belief that a person reciprocates affection. Someone with erotomanic delusions believes their object of affection, often a celebrity or other person of status, has romantic feelings for them even if they have never met.

Types of Erotomania

Erotomania can present differently depending on the type. Primary and secondary erotomania include the same delusional beliefs. However, the latter is a direct result of a mental health disorder, like bipolar disorder with psychosis or schizophrenia.

Primary Erotomania

Erotomanic delusions do not stem from a mental disorder with primary erotomania. The person often believes their love interest made the initial advances and may describe the object of their affection as being unpredictable. They have strong delusions about their relationship with this person but do not experience hallucinations or psychotic symptoms.

Secondary Erotomania

Secondary erotomania occurs alongside another disorder with psychotic features. A person with secondary erotomania is likely to have other delusions or hallucinations, which could be paranoid, persecutory, or grandiose. The erotomanic delusions only occur during a course of psychosis.5

Erotomania Symptoms & Signs

An obsessive focus on a love interest, particularly a stranger, is the hallmark symptom of erotomania. The individual also believes their interest reciprocates and communicates with them (often secretly), thus creating a dangerous departure from reality. The erotomanic may seek information about their person of focus, learning everything about them.

Seven signs and symptoms of erotomania are:1

  • Obsessively thinking about a love interest, celebrity, person of power, and/or a stranger
  • Obsessively seeking information or media content about the love interest
  • Attempting to communicate with or send gifts to the love interest
  • Following, harassing, or otherwise stalking the love interest
  • Believing the love interest is sending messages, possibly secret or encoded, to express their affection, even when no direct communication is present
  • Losing motivation for activities other than pursuing the love interest
  • Becoming jealous of a love interest expressing affection for another or being “unfaithful”

Psychotic Erotomania Breaks

A psychotic break occurs when delusions or hallucinations intensify, and a person loses touch with reality. They may lose insight into their condition, falling further into the false belief that their love interest shares their feelings. They may experience changes in sleep, energy, thought processes, and self-care.

Common symptoms of an erotomania psychotic break include:6

  • High energy
  • Sleeplessness
  • Pressured speech
  • Racing thoughts
  • Delusional thinking
  • Trouble thinking logically
  • A decline in self-care of hygiene
  • A sudden drop in performance at work or school

What Causes Erotomania?

Causes of erotomania differ, but symptoms can occur both in the presence and absence of psychosis. People can experience short episodes of erotomania brought on by social or emotional factors. Others may struggle with multiple erotomanic breaks due to mental health conditions.

The following precipitating factors may refer to clinical or subclinical examples of erotomania:

  • Social isolation: Individuals with limited or no social interaction may grow fixated on specific thoughts or ideas. Being cut off from social support can prevent them from confronting or challenging delusional beliefs, allowing those thoughts to persist and grow.
  • Low self-esteem: Low self-esteem is often associated with the development of erotomanic delusions. A person with low self-esteem may feel unworthy or unlovable and find relief in fantasies about someone being in love with them.
  • Loneliness: The need for social connection can lead to the development of erotomania. Delusional thoughts may begin as a way to escape or cope with feelings of loneliness.
  • Stress: High-stress levels can impair cognitive functioning, affecting the ability to think rationally and critically. Stress can also lead to distorted thinking patterns, such as erotomanic delusions.
  • Feeling rejected: Experiencing rejection can impact self-esteem, leading some individuals to seek sources of love and validation. They may find this validation in erotomanic delusions.
  • Difficulty with socialization cues: Some individuals may misinterpret the actions or words of others, possibly seeing them as an expression of love or interest.
  • Drug or alcohol-induced psychosis: A person experiencing substance-induced psychosis may have many delusions, including paranoia, grandiosity, or erotomania. Their psychosis causes them to break from reality, and they can lose insight into whether their beliefs are accurate.
  • Underlying mental health condition: Erotomania can occur as part of another mental health condition, like delusional disorders, bipolar, or schizophrenia.
  • Physical health condition: Medical conditions can affect cognition, including brain tumors, traumatic brain injuries, or neurological disorders. These cognitive changes could result in delusions, including erotomania.
  • Genetic predisposition to psychotic disorders: A person with a genetic or family history of psychotic disorders may be at a greater risk for experiencing erotomania.

Complications of Erotomania

Erotomania can lead to a host of problems like stalking, threatening, or harassment. Individuals experiencing romantic delusions may misinterpret or ignore boundaries, believing any attempt to get distance or stop their advances is actually a signal for them to try even harder.

Possible complications associated with erotomania include:

  • Legal problems
  • Incarceration
  • Substance misuse
  • Strained relationships
  • Neglecting responsibilities
  • Decreased work or academic performance
  • Loss of reputation or status
  • Increase in isolation or loneliness
  • Emotional distress

How Is Erotomania Diagnosed?

Professionals may classify erotomania as a mental health diagnosis if symptoms are long-lasting and significant.3 Erotomanic symptoms must present for at least one month without other mental health disorders to meet DSM-5 diagnostic criteria for a delusional disorder (subcategory erotomania).

Treatment of Erotomania

A combination of intensive psychotherapy and drug treatment can help alleviate the symptoms of erotomanic delusions. Medication alone does not identify or examine the underlying causes. Because erotomania can last for months or even years, early intervention is pivotal for addressing current episodes and preventing future symptoms.

Therapy

Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) can be moderately effective in treating erotomania, particularly when combined with drug therapy and community support.4 Mental health therapists may also utilize aversion therapy or guided imagery to reduce interest in the erotomanic love object.

Medication

Antipsychotics can help treat erotomania and other similar patterns of delusional thinking. These medications may improve symptoms within hours or days but require four to six weeks to reach their full effect. Antipsychotics block dopamine receptors in the brain, helping to reduce the intensity of delusional thinking (although delusions are unlikely to go away completely).

Final Thoughts

Those afflicted with erotomania often believe their thought patterns are normal or based on reality. For this reason, your role is crucial in getting support for a friend, family member, or loved one impacted by erotomania.

For Further Reading

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