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Parent Coaching: How It Works, Techniques, & What to Expect

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Published: August 23, 2023
  • What Is Parent Coaching?What Is Parent Coaching?
  • How It HelpsHow It Helps
  • Techniques & ModelsTechniques & Models
  • Examples in PracticeExamples in Practice
  • How Much Does It Cost?How Much Does It Cost?
  • Finding a CoachFinding a Coach
  • What to ExpectWhat to Expect
  • Is It Effective?Is It Effective?
  • What Makes It DifferentWhat Makes It Different
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Parent coaching is when one or both parents (or any primary caregiver) meet with a professional coach to foster goal achievement related to parenting. In this non-judgmental setting, the coach can use psychoeducation and evidence-based strategy to navigate familial issues related to children. Parenting coaching can be beneficial for parents who need assistance to increase family functioning and improve communication.1,2,3,4

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What Is Parent Coaching?

Parent coaching can benefit any parent, step-parent, or caregiver who needs support navigating their child’s specialized mental health and developmental needs.5 Parent coaching can occur in person, online, or over the phone, including one or both parents (separately or together). During a session, the professional coach provides psychoeducation about the child’s needs and diagnosis, offers strategies and support, and fosters communication and coping skills.4,5

Parent coaching is directive and brief and establishes mutually agreed-upon goals. In some cases, the coach can connect parents with support groups or resources for long-term assistance. In general, this form of coaching carries an implicit larger goal of re-establishing positive family relationships achieved through smaller goals such as improving communication, providing psychoeducation, improving parenting strategies, fostering confidence and self-efficacy, developing solution-focused thinking, and improving metacognitive skills.6

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What Can Parent Coaching Help With?

Parent coaching can help with a multitude of issues, including transitions and changes. If support is offered in a therapy setting as part of the child’s treatment plan, it will be more of a consultation—brief and diagnosis-oriented. If paid for privately, goals can be broad, more person-centered, and slightly more long-term.4,5,6,7

Families with systemic issues should consider a more appropriate therapeutic approach, such as family systems therapy. Similarly, couples experiencing issues navigating their marriage or parallel parenting may seek a family mediator or couples counselor, depending on their goals.

Parent coaching can help with:

    • Transition issues (marriage, death, adoption, etc.) or familial changes
    • General behavioral issues
    • Learning issues such as attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) and dyslexia
    • Autism spectrum disorders (ASD)
    • Oppositional defiant disorder (ODD) and conduct problems
    • Reactive attachment disorder (RAD)
    • Suicidal ideation, attempt, or recent hospitalization for a mental health event
    • Eating disorders
    • Adolescent substance abuse
    • Parent in recovery
    • LGBTQ support
    • Trauma, survivors of abuse/domestic violence
    • Acculturation stress
    • Facilitating difficult conversations with your child, like adoption, sex, etc.
    • New parents
    • Screen time issues
    • Adaptive communication

Parent Coaching Techniques & Models

Some of the most well-known parent coaching models include the Hanen Centre model, the Gestalt parent coaching model, and the Parent Coaching Institute model (PCI).7,13,14 Other models include parent management training (PMT), parent-child interaction therapy (PCIT), positive parenting program (PPP), and behavioral and emotional skill training (BEST).15 Parents interested in learning more should consult a field professional.

Parent coaching techniques may include:

Hanen Centre Model

The Hanen centre model is clinically-based and emphasizes the importance of familial and parental engagement in efforts to perpetuate ultimate success. It has identified the most effective components of parent coaching and compiled them into a four-step model.14

The steps include in the Hanen centre model include:

      • Prepare the parent to learn: The professional introduces new material to the parent and may provide additional resources for preliminary familiarization.14
      • Show and describe the new strategy: The professional introduces the intervention or strategy to the parent. They will also discuss and model the benefits.14
      • Support the parent: The professional offers positive encouragement, feedback, and support to promote optimal engagement and success.
      • Collaborate with the parent to plan next steps: The professional works with the family to devise a plan for generalizing the strategies in their everyday life.

Gestalt Parent Coaching (GPC) Model

The Gestalt parent coaching (GPC) model is rooted in Gestalt therapy, an approach developed in the 1940s – 1950s. It relies on the principles of the current experience, therapeutic alliance, and social and environmental factors that influence behavior and ability to self-regulate. The GPC model helps parents become influencers of positive change, providing a safe space to explore and change maladaptive behaviors and improve the overall function of the family.13

Parent Coaching Institute (PCI) Model

Gloria DeGaetano founded the Parent Coaching Institute (PCI) in 2000 to empower parents in supporting their children’s cognitive, social, and emotional development. She devised a 4-component model as part of her educational curriculum.7

The Parent Coaching Institute model of parent coaching includes:

      • Parenting as a living system: Parents and children are viewed as changing and growing beings with different strengths and capacities that shape their relationships. Understanding these relationships within the living system is the key to positive change.7
      • The functional ecology of parenting: Understanding parental decision-making within their socio-economic and ecological system.7
      • Brain-compatible parenting: Coaching with the understanding that each individual develops with unique needs and on their timeline.7
      • Appreciative inquiry: Utilizing strengths-based language and instilling hope and positivity in parents and families.7

Parent Coaching Examples

Parent coaching is particularly effective when working with neurodevelopmental disorders (autism, ADD, ADHD), eating disorders, and behavioral issues, including ODD and conduct problems.4,5,6,7,11,14 Parent coaching is a valuable tool for parents who “don’t know where to begin.”

Neurodevelopmental Disorders

Parent coaching helps parents identify support groups and navigate school accommodations or individualized education plans (IEPs). Coaches can also answer questions about psychoeducation and how neurodevelopmental differences impact learning, relationship-building, and problem-solving. Parents learn about dealing with symptoms associated with these conditions, such as sensory preferences, overstimulation, lack of focus, hyperactivity, ADHD hyperfixation, and social-emotional issues.4,5,6,7,14

Eating Disorders

Parent coaching is considered an essential part of eating disorder treatment among youth and adolescents as it provides psychoeducation about the origin of the behavior.16 Additionally, coaches train parents to adopt an appropriate emotional understanding of comorbid factors, such as emotional imbalance, low self-esteem, self-image issues, and maladaptive coping, to promote an adaptive response.16

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Cost of a Parenting Coach

The average price for a parent coaching session is $100.00, but it can go as low as $50.00 or as high as $300.00 when paying out of pocket.17 Cost varies because various providers can perform parent coaching. Many individuals don’t identify parent coaching as part of the therapeutic process; therefore, they can’t consider it “‘therapy,” which raises costs.2,17 Depending on insurance, other providers will offer parent coaching under the parent consultation umbrella.1,3

How to Find a Parent Coach

Any parent interested in parent coaching should research online, consult with their providers, and contact their insurance company to assess their options based on needs. You can also use an online therapist directory to find a parent coach, just like you would a therapist, and look for references to the models listed above in their profile.

What to Expect at Your First Session

Depending on insurance coverage, parent coaching sessions can last 15-60 minutes. Typically, you will discuss parent strategies, adaptive communication, psychoeducation, intervention, and support.1 Parents who hire a specific parent coach will spend the initial session gathering information and goal-setting based on family needs.2,4,5

Additional providers such as parent partners and parent aids are considered supplemental clinical services and require the clinician to create a goal in the existing treatment plan.1 Initial sessions with these providers will be based on planning to achieve the identified goal.1

Is Parent Coaching Effective?

Multiple studies suggest that parent coaching can positively influence the efficacy of treatment outcomes for children, especially regarding autism spectrum diagnosis, eating disorders, and conduct issues.2,4,5,6,8,11,16,18 From a systemic lens, any parent who wishes to learn helpful strategies to support their child could benefit from parent coaching.13

How Is Parent Coaching Different Than Other Counseling Options?

Parent coaching is streamlined to focus on one specific goal within the treatment plan. As a stand-alone service, it is generally a strengths-based approach to parental education and empowerment.2,3,4,7,17 When adjunct to family therapy, it has a clinical focus on improving the overall system through fostering adaptive strategies, resources, and support.6,8,9,10,11,12,13

Final Thoughts

Parent coaching fosters support, understanding, and growth to decrease child issues and improve overall family function. Parent coaches most commonly work with developmental disorders, behavioral issues, eating disorders, and children at high risk. If you’re dealing with parental issues, you’re not alone. Fortunately, there is a broad spectrum of accommodating providers.

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