Gaslighting Parents: 9 Signs & How to Respond
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Primary Changes: Edited for readability and clarity. Reviewed and added relevant resources. Revised “What Is Gaslighting,” “Signs of Gaslighting Parents,” Effects of Having Gaslighting Parents,” and “How to Deal With Gaslighting Parents.” Added “Examples of Gaslighting Parents.” New material written by Alexa Donnelly, LCSW, and reviewed by Kristen Fuller, MD.
Author: Silvi Saxena, MBA, MSW, LSW, CCTP, OSW-C
Reviewer: Rajy Abulhosn, MD