How to Save a Marriage After an Affair
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American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy. (2016). Infidelity. Retrieved from: https://www.aamft.org/Consumer_Updates/Infidelity.aspx
Gottman, J.M. & Silver, N. (2012). What Makes Love Last? How To Build Trust and Avoid Betrayal. New York, NY: Simon & Schuster Paperbacks
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Gottman, J.M. & Gottman, J.S. (2006). 10 Lessons to Transform Your Marriage. New York, NY: Harmony Books
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Primary Changes: Updated for readability and clarity. Reviewed and added relevant resources. Added “Define Infidelity” and “What Causes an Affair?”. Revised “How to Save a Marriage After Cheating: 11 Steps”. New material written by Silvi Saxena, MBA, MSW, LSW, CCTP, OSW-C and reviewed by Kristen Fuller, MD.
Author: Kimberly Panganiban, LMFT
Reviewer: Trishanna Sookdeo, MD, MPH, FAAFP