What Is a Narcissistic Sociopath? 10 Common Signs

What Are the Traits of a Narcissistic Sociopath?

A narcissistic sociopath (also called a narcopath or malignant narcissist)  is a person who displays both narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) and antisocial personality traits. NPD involves having an inflated sense of self-importance, feeling entitled or arrogant, and constantly seeking approval from others. The symptoms of ASPD include impulsivity, aggression, and a total disregard for rules, laws, and social norms.⁵

Key characteristics of a narcissistic sociopath include:

Grandiose Sense of Self-Importance

Narcissistic sociopaths often have an inflated view of themselves and believe they are superior to others.

Entitlement & Arrogance

They feel they deserve special treatment and have little respect for others’ needs or feelings.

Excessive Need for External Validation

Narcissistic sociopaths are driven by the constant need for praise and recognition.

Impulsivity & Aggression

Sociopathic traits often include impulsive behavior and aggression, with little regard for consequences.

Disregard for Rules, Laws, & Social Norms

They tend to ignore societal rules and boundaries, engaging in destructive or illegal behavior.

Lack of Empathy

Narcissistic sociopaths have no regard for the emotions or well-being of others, making it easier for them to manipulate and exploit people.

Sadistic Tendencies

Some experts believe that these individuals may take pleasure in causing harm or suffering, making them particularly dangerous.

Unpredictable Behavior

They can deceive or harm others, even without a clear personal gain, which makes their actions less predictable and more dangerous.

10 Signs of a Narcissistic Sociopath

A narcissistic sociopath is considered one of the most dangerous, psychologically disturbed kinds of people.^{1, 2, 3} Their complete lack of empathy and regard for the feelings or needs of other people makes them much more likely to act out behaviors that are typically considered wrong, bad, or even evil.⁴

To be classified as a narcopath, malignant narcissist, or narcissistic sociopath, a person has to display several traits of both NPD and ASPD.

Here are 10 signs of a narcissistic sociopath:

1. Narcissistic Sociopaths Create Their Own Reality

Narcissistic sociopaths don’t see the world in the same way other people do. In their distorted version of reality, they are entitled to whatever they want, regardless of what it takes to get it or who is hurt in the process.⁴ They will justify their actions, even ones that are inexcusable, and show no remorse. A sociopath’s narcissism may also lead them to develop delusions of grandeur about being important, special, or exceptional in some way. Or, they can experience paranoid delusions that others are out to get them.^{1, 2}

2. They Are Obsessed With Power & Control

People with NPD and ADP are power-hungry. Sociopathic narcissists put a lot of time and effort into acquiring positions that give them power or control over people, bowling over anyone who gets in their way. Once they obtain control, they may demand to be addressed in a certain way or make others follow rules that don’t make sense. This obsession also tends to show up as a refusal to acknowledge any other authority, including rules, laws, policies, or requests made of them by others.⁴

3. They Take Advantage & Use Other People

Narcissistic sociopaths have a habit of using, exploiting, and taking advantage of others. This tendency shows up in all of their relationships, including romantic, platonic, or familial relationships they’ve been able to maintain. They seek out codependent, nurturing individuals who are more easily manipulated and controlled through guilt, shame, or fear, and will hold onto these relationships for as long as the person remains “useful.”⁴

4. They Have No Moral Boundaries

There are no lines a narcissistic sociopath won’t cross to get what they want. Their moral compass is non-existent, leaving them without the sense of “right and wrong” that most people have. After doing something harmful, illegal, or sadistic, they won’t feel remorse, regret, or guilt. In fact, they may even feel a sense of satisfaction knowing they were able to deceive, emotionally manipulate, or hurt someone.^{1, 3, 4}

5. They Have a Limited Range of Emotions

Narcissistic sociopaths don’t experience feelings of love and affection, or more vulnerable emotions like guilt, shame, or sadness. The only strong emotion they seem to be able to access is anger. This can show up as outrage or narcissistic rage when they’re slighted, offended, or not granted something they feel they deserve.⁴ This stunted emotional range also keeps them from being able to experience empathy, sometimes leading them to engage in destructive behaviors that grant them some form of feeling.^{1, 3}

6. They Have a Huge Discard Pile

Narcissistic sociopaths are known to discard people and things that are no longer useful to them. Over time, their narcissistic discard pile stacks up and may include former friends, lovers, colleagues, and mentors. Their discard pile may also include expensive material things they got bored or tired of, as well as roles or activities that served a purpose at one time but are no longer useful to them.⁴

7. They Become Hostile When Threatened

Narcissistic sociopaths are most dangerous when they feel threatened. Because of their natural tendency to be paranoid, less trusting, and more easily offended, threats can be a routine occurrence for them. When they feel threatened, the narcopath will often become hostile and aggressive, lashing out and becoming abusive toward others.^{1, 2, 4}

8. They Feed Off of Negative Energy

A narcissistic sociopath feeds off of negative emotions and energy. There is something about drama, others’ fear or pain, or the chaos of disaster that seems to excite them or give them energy. This kind of parasitic attraction to negativity is a telltale sign of a sick person, including a person who may have traits of NPD and ASPD. This behavior is also what makes sociopathic narcissists sadistic and dangerous, causing them to enjoy the pain and suffering of others.¹

9. They Get Bored Easily

A narcissistic sociopath is constantly seeking sensations and cheap thrills because nothing can hold their interest and attention for long. They become easily bored with people, things, and activities, and will abandon them once they are no longer entertained. This boredom can also turn into a restlessness that causes them to find destructive outlets. For this reason, people with these traits tend to be impulsive and aggressive, or engaged in crime, violence, or drug use.^{1, 4}

10. They Are Empty Inside

A narcissistic sociopath may have worked hard to craft a powerful, important image, but this is a front. Lacking the ability to feel a full range of emotions makes them hollow and empty on the inside, keeping them from really experiencing things, expressing themselves, or connecting with others.³ This internal emptiness is what they’re trying to hide from others with their narcissism, and also what they’re seeking to escape within themselves by using maintaining a level of entertainment, power, or destruction.

How to Deal With a Narcissistic Sociopath

Dealing with a narcissistic sociopath requires setting firm boundaries, protecting your emotional well-being, and in some cases, seeking professional help. While no person is beyond hope, a narcissistic sociopath is unlikely to change, and experts recommend distancing yourself from their toxic behavior to avoid emotional and psychological harm. They can be dangerous, abusive, or violent, and should be avoided if possible.

Narcissists are most likely to become dangerous when you upset them, offend them, or fail to meet an expectation they have, but they can be unpredictable and impulsive.¹ Some narcissistic sociopaths are even sadistic and enjoy inflicting pain, which displays a level of brokenness that even therapy may not be able to correct.^{1, 3, 4} For these reasons, most experts recommend that you not get into a relationship with someone who has these traits, and leave a relationship if you see these signs. If that’s not an option, start by learning how to deal with a narcissist, protect yourself, and behave in ways that are less likely to make you their target.

When & How a Therapist Can Help

Therapy can help you overcome a range of issues, including helping you heal from narcissistic abuse, but it cannot change the narcissistic sociopath in your life. Those with this combination of personality disorders are usually unable to empathize and aren’t motivated by the same drives as others. Instead, they thrive off of their own self-interest, power, impulses, and in some cases, a sick need to hurt or control.^{1, 3, 4}

If you are considering therapy to recover from narcissistic abuse, seek out a therapist who is knowledgeable about NPD, APD, and narcissistic abuse. Finding the right therapist who utilizes a type of trauma therapy is also recommended as they can help you overcome any shame, guilt, self-doubt, and codependence you are experiencing. You can begin your search on a free online therapist directory, or use an online therapy platform.